Allow your thoughts to be heard. I want to be the greatest in this life, impacting lives positively. Many times in as much as I avoid hurting any one especially the people I love, how do I then come out to tell them how I feel without hurting them? How do you come out to an elderly love one and tell them that their breathe stings? Yeah it’s true they need to know so as to work out a solution. I just need the right words. Some say there is no such thing as a right word but I guess I have this weakness, I don’t know how to get around stuff that touches people’s personality and emotions. I will definitely have to say it but I need just the perfect word.

Why do we cheat? She’s got everything, those eyes, those lips, that touch that says goodnight to pain and good morning to comfort. Why do we cheat I wonder? May be we are still boys unable to control that urge down there maybe not. And with a sincere look at her will still say I love you and you know what it’s so true then why do we cheat? It’s something I cursed my dad for doing and helped my mom through with it. Upsetting what you love can be hideously painful but I cheated on her. Why did I cheat? I beg to know. Since for centuries we men are new to this art of desire control. I am I must say but I know I wont do it again because of how bent out of shape my love became. Why do I cheat? I guess the answer is within us AND WE LOOK SO HARD OUR SIDE THATS WHY WE MISS IT. Why do I Cheat? I can’t tell but all I know is, am sorry and I love you looking at her I said that.

  I AM NO PROFESSOR. Well not an expert but I observe and observing what a few people have done, it was a big deal for me to get some one to confide in me. Well with the years I discovered the secret of confiding is trust because some one has to trust to share his secrets with you and the secret of getting trust is all about power well lover cuts too but that’s the ultimate tool or weapon. To get some one to reveal his secret is simple… give him one ball to hold he will give you one too but trade carefully. Give him the numb ball and make it look sensitive so he knows he got you some where. Then he will gladly give you his. That’s all the rest time will help and by the end of the month you are holding the hold junk….. Aahahaha

I know that I might not be the most interesting person in your world; you might no even find me fun to be with. You may not even find me nice enough. I might have failed and hurt you so bad in the past. My presence might be the most irritating and more a dreaded nightmare for you. Maybe I wasn’t there when adversity came knocking. Am sorry I shattered a part of your dreams but believe me, I want to make a difference, I want to love you. I love you that’s why;I want to be the push when you are stopped,That word when you are lonely,The specific guide when you are searching.I will love to be the smile when you are sad,That song when you are glad.Let me be everything when you are nothing. Let me love you. I love you.

Have you ever been misled to thinking that friendship can be bought. First, it doesn’t have a market and it is not an asset to be bought in a shop. Funny yet interesting enough is the means by which friendship is supposedly being bought; lies, gossips, backstabbing etc. friendship is a plant that has to be cultivated, watered and tended for it to grow and stays strong not to be moved by cheap talks. It is an exclusive event, based on good attitudes. It has its roots planted in common concerns and interest. Don’t be misled; you can win more friends with your ears than your mouth. That’s why if you are polite and courteous you will enjoy the friendship of money.

For a fact, it is true that every thing and every action has got a pay back time, you could be one who use them, their money, cheat on them, and turn them into emotional wrecks despite the fact that they are true but you know what that one person that all your hots will long for will do u same if not worst. This is not my wish for you but be true and be you. You will reap only what you sow; you took their only pride and shattered their dreams but know this when you will be in the same pot, they will rock your world. Hey don’t tell me love is an illusion or you are not one of those who love but I bet you are bound too. It’s not late you can still make amends. You are not a bad person change make the differences.

Honestly, I thought it was going to be a bed of red, fresh sweet roses but no, to my greatest dismay, it wasn’t anything close to that. I thought going to school was the hardest part but no it is not. Finding a job seems to be the most difficult. But you know, it even gets more stressful managing the finances and meeting up with the challenges of your job and task especially in the mid of the month with money running out and task rushing in. honestly, I wish all was easy but I just realised that in this world you and I live in, there is no such word or thing as easy because evening sleeping is not easy. No matter how I thought, we all have to grow up all some day to better understand and organise.

Money, that’s life sweetener and great entertainer. Just like the wind it appears and rocks your little world before passing by. Money makes names and builds empires as big as the imagination leads. Just like a ghost to the poor, a little while its there and a little while its no more, like human feelings, like the ever changing weather and just exactly as a prostitute. Money is good but should be handled with care. Like any other agent of power money corrupts best and after it’s, done what’s left is just a shadow of what you were before. Money needs to be handled with wisdom if not it will wage a war against your wisdom and defile your brightness for wisdom can be corrupted. God can make a difference.

I was so heartbroken by some of my friends. I care and loved much. I don’t know if it was intentional or not but they wronged me so bad. They say a false friend is worse than five enemies, I totally agree. If you have ever been led down by a friend if you ever led them as I did at some point, you will know how wrecking it can get but am sorry for the wrong can help restore. They should not be you’re your friend because it is convenient for them. Friendship is not pity. If you are truly my friend, you will love me not pity me. Telling the truth is love. That’s what makes us the friends we are holding on even in the odds. If they don’t contribute to your priorities, they disqualify themselves for a relationship.

Strange as the source of fire but ever pulling as the forces of lust and sexual desire. It hails when you least expect it but when poorly handle drags you so low than whence you began. Its pleasing as warm honey, cosy as the arms of your love one after a fierce  fight, if not driven it drives you and when you slumber it takes you where light never friends and the only presents of true smiles and friendship are their tomb stones lying abandoned and never visited. When being praised beyond the real us we feel like flying without wings. Self flattery is the worst of all flatteries. When you love people you don’t flatter them. Not everyone knows how to handle flatteries. It’s like fire, if well guarded will shine through but if not kept within boundaries it will burn without limits. Tell them the truth not the lies they will be comfortable with